Being a good wife is not an easy task. A wife is not only a wife, she is a daughter, a sister, a daughter-in-law, a sister-in-law, and many more relationships. To be a good wife means not just being a wife but be good in all these relations. A husband can only call you a good wife if you are good to him as well as his blood-relatives (means your in-laws). If you think that being good to your husband only can make you a good wife then you are making fool of yourself.
To be a good wife first of all you need to understand your husband. After all he is also a human being, just like you. He is also attached to his parents and brother-sisters, just like you are attached to yours. If a wife think that being a good cook and a hot partner in bed makes her a good wife then again you are fooling yourselves. Of Course a man needs good food and hot partner in bed, but being a good wife is much more than that.
Please don't think that i am taking side of Husbands. You can read my article "How to be a good Husband".
1. He expects her to be a good friend, to whom he can share all of his feelings.
2. He expects her to respect his parents and love her brother and sister.
3. He expects her to be faithful to him.
4. He expects her to calm him down when he is angry.
However expectations are the main reason for all fights between husband and wife. But its a truth that there is no life without expectations. But what one should understand is that our ego should not overtake our love for a few expectations. Sometimes when our expectations are not fulfilled then our ego is hurt which changes in anger. Its certain that when some expectation is not fulfilled then our mood also fluctuates. It doesn't matter if you are husband or wife, but you should take your mood under control at that time and your partner some time to settle the things down. Some times our instant reactions make the condition worst. An angry person can't take right decisions. Sometimes we speak so rudely in angry mood that later we regret that we should not have said that thing at that time. Words spoken can't be taken back and our ego makes it worst when we don't even say sorry for what we said.
However there is no place of Sorry or Thankyou between good friends, but husband wife should not follow this rule. If you feel that you have made a mistake or said something wrong, then say sorry. It will make your bond stronger. And a good partner will accept you sorry and definitely hug you and thus the matter will come to an end. But if your partner doesn't accept you apology then don't think that you should not have said sorry. Your apology was the right thing, and maybe after sometime your partner will come to you to end the fight.
Here we are talking about an ideal wife. An ideal wife is not just wife. A wife is a complete women, she can handle her husband like a mother, like a sister, like a lover and like a friend. Thats why she is called complete. She can put his head on her lap like a mother. She can fight with him over the TV remote like a sister. She can love him like a mad lover. She can give suggestions to him like a friend. Its a complete lady personality in a wife.
To be a good wife first of all you need to understand your husband. After all he is also a human being, just like you. He is also attached to his parents and brother-sisters, just like you are attached to yours. If a wife think that being a good cook and a hot partner in bed makes her a good wife then again you are fooling yourselves. Of Course a man needs good food and hot partner in bed, but being a good wife is much more than that.
Please don't think that i am taking side of Husbands. You can read my article "How to be a good Husband".
What does a Husband expects in his wife apart from being a good cook and hot partner ?
1. He expects her to be a good friend, to whom he can share all of his feelings.
2. He expects her to respect his parents and love her brother and sister.
3. He expects her to be faithful to him.
4. He expects her to calm him down when he is angry.
However expectations are the main reason for all fights between husband and wife. But its a truth that there is no life without expectations. But what one should understand is that our ego should not overtake our love for a few expectations. Sometimes when our expectations are not fulfilled then our ego is hurt which changes in anger. Its certain that when some expectation is not fulfilled then our mood also fluctuates. It doesn't matter if you are husband or wife, but you should take your mood under control at that time and your partner some time to settle the things down. Some times our instant reactions make the condition worst. An angry person can't take right decisions. Sometimes we speak so rudely in angry mood that later we regret that we should not have said that thing at that time. Words spoken can't be taken back and our ego makes it worst when we don't even say sorry for what we said.
However there is no place of Sorry or Thankyou between good friends, but husband wife should not follow this rule. If you feel that you have made a mistake or said something wrong, then say sorry. It will make your bond stronger. And a good partner will accept you sorry and definitely hug you and thus the matter will come to an end. But if your partner doesn't accept you apology then don't think that you should not have said sorry. Your apology was the right thing, and maybe after sometime your partner will come to you to end the fight.
An Ideal Wife
Here we are talking about an ideal wife. An ideal wife is not just wife. A wife is a complete women, she can handle her husband like a mother, like a sister, like a lover and like a friend. Thats why she is called complete. She can put his head on her lap like a mother. She can fight with him over the TV remote like a sister. She can love him like a mad lover. She can give suggestions to him like a friend. Its a complete lady personality in a wife.
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